FetLife

What does FetLife mean?

The name of a social network for people who are into BDSM, Fetishism, or many other kinks.

Other definitions of FetLife:

An online social network website that focuses on serving the fetish community. The site is not a hook-up or dating website, but an avenue to write about kinks or make friends within the community.
A free, member's only website that focuses on BDSM, Fetish, and Kinky Community. Like Facebook, but run by kinksters.
An adult social network that serves the fetishism/kink online community. The website distinguishes itself from competitors by being a social network, rather than a dating site.
Online social network named for "Fetish-Life" that focuses on fetishism communities. The site was created by John Kopanas in 2008, who was frustrated in his attempts to find women with the same, niche sexual interests.

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How to use the term
FetLife:

Find me on FetLife.
We met each other on FetLife. It was so nice to meet someone who clicked with my interests.
After browsing some FetLife writings, I started to figure out some things about myself.
Living my best life on FetLife!

References:

FetLife's Homepage

A Website that mentions "FetLife."
The homepage to the Fetish community website FetLife.

FetLife is a place to explore kinks, not find partners.
Check it Out

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