FetLife

What does FetLife mean?

The name of a social network for people who are into BDSM, Fetishism, or many other kinks.

Other definitions of FetLife:

An online social network website that focuses on serving the fetish community. The site is not a hook-up or dating website, but an avenue to write about kinks or make friends within the community.
A free, member's only website that focuses on BDSM, Fetish, and Kinky Community. Like Facebook, but run by kinksters.
An adult social network that serves the fetishism/kink online community. The website distinguishes itself from competitors by being a social network, rather than a dating site.
Online social network named for "Fetish-Life" that focuses on fetishism communities. The site was created by John Kopanas in 2008, who was frustrated in his attempts to find women with the same, niche sexual interests.

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How to use the term
FetLife:

Find me on FetLife.
We met each other on FetLife. It was so nice to meet someone who clicked with my interests.
After browsing some FetLife writings, I started to figure out some things about myself.
Living my best life on FetLife!

References:

FetLife's Homepage

A Website that mentions "FetLife."
The homepage to the Fetish community website FetLife.

FetLife is a place to explore kinks, not find partners.
Check it Out

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RBF

Resting Bitch Face, or a facial expression suggesting disinterest, annoyance, or aloofness unintentionally.

LFG

Let's f***ing go! LFG is an acronym expressing energetic enthusiasm or eagerness to begin something exciting.

FK

An abbreviated or sanitized form of the notorious "F word."

KKY

A shortening of the word "kinky," often used in text messaging and the online realm.

MM

A shorthand slang often used in texts or digital interactions to convey mild agreement or contemplation, similar to 'hm' or 'okay'.

Pause

An interjection used to clarify that a preceding statement isn't meant to imply anything inappropriate or suggestive.

Ratchet

Describes something or someone trashy, vulgar, or tacky, usually with a touch of chaotic boldness.

Send It

An encouraging phrase urging immediate action, often risky or daring.

WAG

A casual acronym referring to the spouse or girlfriend of a professional athlete.

Trap

A genre of hip hop music characterized by heavy beats, layered electronic sounds, and gritty lyrical themes related to street life.

DGY

A shorthand slang acronym meaning 'Damn Girl, Yes', expressing enthusiastic approval or admiration of someone's style, attitude, or achievements.

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HRY

An abbreviation commonly used in text or online messaging meaning 'How are you'.

Eyebrow Slit

A thin, intentional gap or shaved part in one or both eyebrows made for stylistic purposes.

LLOL

A sarcastic or exaggerated increase of the phrase 'laugh out loud,' standing for 'literally laughing out loud.'

SWAS

An acronym for sweaty ass syndrome, referring to excessive perspiration in one's posterior region.

JIK

Abbreviation of 'Jesus is King', commonly referencing Kanye West's ninth studio album of the same name.

POV

Acronym indicating the perspective or viewpoint from which something is experienced or presented.

Tight ass

Someone overly frugal, miserly, or excessively careful with money or resources.

SWW

An acronym frequently used in texting and online chat, translating loosely to 'say whatever' or 'sure, why not', signaling nonchalance or mild indifference.

TBH

An abbreviation meaning 'to be honest', indicating frankness or sincerity.

NQ

Abbreviation representing 'Not Qualified', typically indicating failure to advance in competitions or benchmarks.

TQ

Abbreviation often used for 'Thank You', commonly in text messaging or online chats.

HYH

An acronym short for 'Hold Your Horses,' advising someone to be patient or wait.

Cracker

A derogatory slang term referring primarily to a white person, particularly targeting white Southerners perceived as racist or prejudiced.

UTY

An abbreviation of 'up to you,' meaning the decision or choice belongs to the listener.

FFY

An acronym used informally to emphatically express strong agreement or support towards someone or their actions.

HAI

An informal, internet-influenced greeting derived from 'hi'.

FMLTWIA

An acronym expressing exaggerated dismay at one's absurdly unfortunate situation, meaning 'Fuck My Life, This World Is Absurd'.

LOML

Acronym for 'love of my life', referring affectionately to one's significant other or deepest romantic interest.

TBY

A shorthand acronym generally meaning 'Thinking 'Bout You'.

WEP

Refers to someone displaying weak or inadequate effort, usually in a competitive or social situation.

RTT

An abbreviation for 'Real Talk Tho', a phrase emphasizing sincerity or seriousness.

Sup

A casual greeting equivalent to asking how someone is or what they have been doing.

GJ

A concise way of giving praise or affirmation for someone's achievement or effort.

PSG

An abbreviation of Paris Saint-Germain, a prominent French professional football club.

LYT

Abbreviation of 'love you too,' often used in texting and social media to reciprocate affection briefly.

Popo

Slang referring to police officers.

Kyle

A stereotype denoting a young, aggressive male characterized by extreme hyperactivity, a penchant for energy drinks, and destructive behavior.

KMAO

Acronym for a humorous expression inviting someone to angrily place a kiss upon one's posterior.

Gekyume

A hypothetical higher state of awareness or existence, often referencing a supreme level of consciousness.

Shyt

A non-standard variant of a profane term used to express frustration, surprise, enthusiasm, or general emphasis.

MOFO

A mildly censored slang variation referring insultingly or humorously to an irritating or contemptible person.

BHH

Acronym for 'Bless His Heart', often used sarcastically.

BFN

An informal abbreviation used primarily in texting or chatting, meaning 'Bye for now'.

YDK

An abbreviation commonly used online meaning 'You Don't Know'.

TOFTT

An acronym exhorting someone to engage in a potentially unpleasant task or situation to determine the risk or outcome.

SXC

An abbreviation for 'sexy', indicating sexual attractiveness or appeal.

EOY

An acronym standing for 'End of Year,' typically referring to the final months or conclusion of a fiscal or calendar year.

OMDZ

An exclamation conveying shock, awe, disbelief, or amazement, akin to 'Oh my days'.

Youngin

A youthful person, typically younger than the speaker, often a child or teen.

GYHTBT

Internet acronym expressing disbelief about an event that sounds genuinely unbelievable unless witnessed firsthand.

FML

An expression declaring despair or frustration over one's tragicomic life events.

FGJ

Internet slang acronym meaning 'Fucking Great Job', typically used sarcastically or humorously.

Wig

An exclamation expressing astonishment, admiration, or knowing approval.

UNTZ

An onomatopoeic representation of a repetitive bass beat common in electronic dance music genres.

HU

An abbreviation commonly used in texting meaning 'Hook Up'—casual sexual encounter or rendezvous.

Gyal

Informal Caribbean slang referring to a girl or young woman.

JN

An abbreviation commonly used to signify ‘just now’, typically indicating something recently happened or was done.

Cap

A statement or assertion that is false or grossly exaggerated.

BBE

An acronym referring to someone with dominant, compelling, or attention-commanding energy.

Emo

A subculture associated with emotional vulnerability, dark fashion, and expressive music.

THOT

A derogatory slang term for a woman considered promiscuous or sexually provocative.

IOUD

A slang acronym standing for 'Inside Out Upside Down', indicating a state of confusion or utter disarray.

OUO

An emoticon used to express surprise, intense happiness, excitement, or astonishment.

Zesty

Describing someone or something as vibrant, bold, or refreshingly exciting in style or appearance.

Sassy

Boldly spirited with a playful edge, often humorously irreverent or cheeky.

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